A Special Birthday, A Special Gift: Rare Disease Day
I was born on leap year. February 29th, 1992.
And for the past four years, I’ve hated and dreaded my birthday. For one reason or another, there were tears shed each year on my birthday. Whether it was due to pain or not-so-awesome people I used to call friends, birthdays kind of sucked. Honestly, I’ve been dreading today for a few weeks now.
And yet, my birthday is a special day, and not just because it only comes every four years. It is Rare Disease Day (which falls on the 28th when it’s not a leap year)—a day close to my heart. Friends and family laugh about me having three rare diseases, being born on leap year, and being a rare disease advocate a “cosmic joke.” At this point I suppose I’m inclined to agree :)
Having three rare diseases, having no rare-disease literate doctor, and having so few treatment options defines all aspects of my life. It defines what I do with my day—including my birthday—and this year I wanted to stop the string of depressing birthdays I’ve had for the past few years and do something meaningful for Rare Disease Day instead.
Only, someone else did that before I even had a chance. A fellow Stanford ePatient, a IBD/Crohn’s Disease advocate, and rare disease advocate, Carly Medosch, surprised me this week by representing me at Rare Disease Day at our capitol. It was a complete surprise.
Carly printed out my recent blog post regarding Rare Disease Day and took printouts with her to the capitol, where she has handed them out and shared my story with state representatives and other legislative aides.
And then, this: Carly and MedX ePatient advisor/blogger AfternoonNapper
And then, this: a lovely woman from Florida who has agreed to share my blog/blog post with her congress people (!!!!).
And THEN, this:
This is Jonny Lee Miller. He plays on Sherlock Holmes on CBS’s Elementary (shoutout to him also being in Trainspotting, I’m a fan), and he also runs a NPO for a rare disease. He spoke on a panel today for Rare Disease Day, advocating for others, and was kind enough to wish me a happy birthday and read my blog(!).
Little did he know, that the prosthetic leg he used as a prop in this season’s episode two was my grandmother’s prosthetic leg. CBS purchased the leg from my family this past fall. Life is really freaking unbelievable that way, isn’t it? My grandmother would be so proud that her prosthetic leg ended up in the hands of a rare disease advocate who works alongside me and spoke on behalf of me and many other rare disease patients. She would be so proud.
The kindness of my MedX family, my friends, my new LSH family, has just been completely overwhelming. Driving home tonight, all I could think about is how painful this month has been physically, and yet, it was full of nothing but positive news, new opportunities, and new people.
Thank you Carly, Sarah, Jonny Lee Miller, Global Genes, and the rest of you for making this week and this birthday one I will hold near and dear to my heart. I can’t tell you how much it—and you—mean to me.
Tomorrow I will still be handing out 100 Global Genes rare disease awareness ribbons as planned, only now with less anxiety and sadness re: my birthday and an unbelievable amount of gratitude and love instead.
Please follow Carly, Sarah, and the #wrdd14 hashtag on Twitter to keep up with this week’s Rare Disease Day events, and don’t forget to take a picture raising/joining your hands to show that you care about rare. I will be posting mine later today :)
Thank you for making this day and this week so special. I’ve never felt more like I belong and more loved in my whole life. I am sitting here writing this with tears—happy tears!—and I mean it. This community on tumblr, twitter, in person, online—you all mean so much to me. Every person that reads this blog has made this journey possible. And I love you all for it, I really do.